"Can I still see my therapist when I'm traveling?"

Maybe you have thought or said...

"I do not belong anywhere. I am just too insecure and awkward. I will never fit in."
"I feel dead inside. ⚰️ Sometimes it feels like I am going through life on autopilot. Will I ever feel joy again?"
"If people really got to know me, I bet they would leave. I am going to try really hard to be the person they want."
"Why am I like this?! 😞— I know my parents did the best they could and gave me food, clothes, and an education. My childhood wasn't that bad. So why do I still feel so empty and unhappy?"
"My thoughts, opinions, and feelings must not really matter. I am basically invisible." 🫥

But, imagine you had...

New perspectives that could completely improve your outlook on life📈
A place to feel safe, seen, heard, and accepted to unpack and process your hurts
A better sense of yourself and the ability to ask for what you need
More confidence in yourself, in your voice, and your decisions 💪🏼
The ability to remain strong, calm, and resolute in the face of confrontation, conflict, or others' judgments 😇
A qualified therapist who can move you from merely existing to truly living— empowered, confident, and authentic!

LET'S TALK!

Let's work together!

Hi! I am Lan 😊

(like "Mulan" without the "mu").

I help Asian American millennials live more confidently with less fear!

Clients appreciate working with me to address imposter syndrome, social anxiety, low self-confidence, and MORE! 😲
First-time therapy seekers feel safe knowing that I was once there too.
Clients and other professionals appreciate my commitment to provide accessible resources and practical help ⚙️

I provide telehealth therapy to clients residing in San Francisco, Irvine, San Jose, Los Angeles, Mission Viejo, San Diego, Houston, Anna, Plano, El Paso, Dallas, & across all of Texas and California.

LEARN MORE ABOUT HOW I CAN HELP

Want Connection & Community?

✨ Join the "How to NOT Date a Narcissist" Therapy Group ☠️

Beginning 11/19/25, we meet

EVERY Wednesday at 8pm PT / 10pm CT

This therapy group is affordable option to receive guidance, knowledge, and understanding from a therapist and from peers! 🙌🏼

👀 Learn to spot toxic behaviors, read body language, decode cryptic texts, & maneuver the landscape of dating while dodging human land mines!

💣 Get empowered with the tips and tricks to get where you want to be in your romantic life! 💘

Fill out an Interest Form to express your desire to join the group and get connected today!

LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS GROUP

Virtual Therapy across Texas & California

Maybe you have thought or said...

But, imagine you had...

Let's work together!

I help Asian American millennials live more confidently with less fear!

Ready to heal?

Want Connection & Community?

✨ Join the "How to NOT Date a Narcissist" Therapy Group ☠️

🔎Looking for practical tools for your healing journey?

🆓 FREE RESOURCES

🖊️ Therapy Blog

You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept... But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.

Virtual Therapy across Texas & California

Maybe you have thought or said...

But, imagine you had...

Let's work together!

I help Asian American millennials live more confidently with less fear!

Ready to heal?

Want Connection & Community?

✨ Join the "How to NOT Date a Narcissist" Therapy Group ☠️

🔎Looking for practical tools for your healing journey?

🆓 FREE RESOURCES

🖊️ Therapy Blog

You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept... But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand.

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